In Memory Of Joshua Wanya “Joshie” Berry

In Memory Of

Joshua Wanya “Joshie” Berry

March 31, 2020 – August 3, 2023

“Forever 3. Forever Loved. Forever My Son.”

Joshua Wanya Berry, lovingly known as Joshie, was a deeply cherished little boy whose life, though far too brief, left a lasting impact on everyone who knew and loved him.

To his mother, Wayna, Joshie will forever be her sweet boy, forever three, and forever a part of her heart. His life was filled with love, laughter, courage, and purpose. He brought joy to his family, strengthened their faith, and reminded those around him of the sacred gift of each moment.

“Joshie was not defined by the length of his life, but by the depth of his impact.”

A Life That Still Speaks

Joshie had a sweet and loving spirit. He was full of joy, curiosity, and resilience. His smile could light up a room, and his laughter had a way of making everything feel lighter, even on the hardest days.

He loved the simple things that make childhood beautiful: being held, cuddled, played with, included, and surrounded by family. He loved connection. He loved being loved. And in return, he gave love in a way that changed the hearts of those closest to him.

Despite medical challenges and uncertainty surrounding his future, Joshie surpassed expectations. His life became a testimony of faith, grace, hope, and unconditional love.

He taught his family to slow down. To celebrate small victories. To cherish ordinary moments. To understand that joy can be found in a child’s laugh, a mother’s hug, a family’s love, and the gift of simply being together.

The Little Things We Remember

Some of the most treasured memories of Joshie are the simple ones:

His beautiful smile and joyful laughter.
His comforting, warm hugs.
The distinct way he looked at his mom when he wanted her attention.
The unforgettable feeling of his tiny hand resting inside hers.
The absolute comfort of holding him close.

At the time, those moments may have seemed ordinary. Now, they are sacred memories that continue to bring both tears and smiles.

Wayna remembers watching him grow, celebrating his birthdays, and simply being his mom. Every milestone mattered because his life was so deeply precious. Though Joshie was here for only three years, he filled those years with enough love and memories to last a lifetime.

A Mother’s Love

If Wayna could speak to Joshie today, she would tell him how much she loves him and how deeply she misses him. She would tell him that not a day goes by that she does not think of him. She carries him with her in the work she does, the people she helps, the stories she tells, and the life she continues to live.

She would tell him how proud she is to be his mom. Out of every title she has ever held, being Joshie’s mother is one of the greatest blessings God has given her. Loving him has shaped her, changed her, and given her a purpose she never expected.

“Grief is the price I pay for loving you, and I would pay it a thousand times over just to have been your mom.”

— Wayna

What Joshie’s Life Continues to Teach

Joshie’s life reminds us that love is not measured by time. It is measured by impact. He taught his family that joy and sorrow can exist together. That love continues after death. That a person’s legacy is not measured in years, but in the lives they touch.

His story did not end when his life ended. Joshie continues to live on through the love he created, the lives he touched, the stories shared about him, and the grief work and advocacy his mother now offers to other bereaved parents.

In his memory, Wayna continues to live with purpose, helping others who are grieving and reminding them that even the shortest lives can leave the most lasting footprints.

When you think of Joshie, do not only think about how he died. Think about how he lived. Think about the joy he brought, the love he shared, the faith he strengthened, and the legacy he continues to leave behind.

A Message for Others Who Are Grieving

Wayna wants others who are grieving to know this: There is no right way to grieve, and there is no timeline for healing. Grief is not something you simply “get over.” It is something you learn to carry. Some days the weight feels lighter, and some days it feels as heavy as it did in the beginning. Both are okay.

Your loved one is not forgotten simply because the world keeps moving. Their life mattered. Their story matters. Your grief is evidence of your love, and love does not end when someone dies.

Healing does not mean leaving your loved one behind. Sometimes healing means learning how to carry them forward. Joy is not a betrayal. Laughter is not forgetting. Living again does not mean loving them less. The pain may never completely disappear, but neither will the love. And in the end, love is what remains.

Forever Joshie

Always loved. Always remembered. Always part of the story.


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